Today I did the unthinkable: I parted ways with my lovely new finger bauble. Only temporary, of course. Oddly enough, although I've only had the sparkly thang a few short days, I'm totally experiencing phantom ring syndrome.
Ring Man is lonely today, sir.
So in an effort to run away Ring Man's loneliness (and by popular demand) I'll recount the proposal in greater detail.
As you already know, we "packed" a picnic lunch from Morucci's Deli and drove down to Monterey county to pick up our wine club shipment at Hahn Estates.

On our way down, we ran into a little traffic in Prunedale, where most vehicles were heading west towards Carmel, rather than continuing south on Highway-101 like Fella and I. By the time we got to Hahn, we were a little bit famished. So we pulled up a chair on the deck and ate.

And it was good.
Fella returned some leftovers to the car before we went into the tasting room. I stayed up on the deck to admire the view of the valley.
Oct. 2006
I walked back to join Fella and head into the tasting room, when he pulls something out of his pocket saying, "I got you a little something...." For a moment I wondered what sort of present he would have gotten me on account on the new job. After all, he knows I already have three business card holders. But upon getting a glimpse of just what he was presenting to me, I realized that Fella had other things in mind.

He opened the box and asked, "Would you make me happier than I already am now?"
"If you get down on one knee!"
Kneeling down, he then asks, "Will you be my wife?"
(We all, of course, already know the answer).
It was very nonchalant, uncontrived, and very Fella. I didn't cry, more like laughed. Which is more our style anyway. And Fella was glad that I didn't cry, because that would have meant that he would have joined in on it.
A couple more times throughout the afternoon, Fella took my hand and assumed the position (on one knee). So really, he kinda proposed to me three times on Saturday. And I'm sure it only got easier each subsequent time. Fella himself said that he was glad to get it over with--I know, sounds uber romantic--but it because it was definitely, definitely time.
In other news, I got the All's Clear from my new employer. And I start working on Thursday. For a little while, my paranoia got the best of me. I was a little convinced that the opportunity might fall through. My rationale? Balance would then be restored in the universe. Silly paranoia of karmic retribution.
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